Learn To Massage

Giving your girl a massage should be two things: relaxing and erotic. There are volumes of books and websites dedicated to teaching the technique. But for those who are in a hurry, here are a few pointers:

Set the atmosphere - Dim the lights, burn a scented candle and play some music your lady likes, then crank up your heating. All of this may sound cheesy, but it works. Lay her on her stomach (the bed's ideal for this, or use some towels and blankets on the floor). You'll need a squeeze bottle of scented message oil and lay it in a bowl of hot water. And wash your hands in hot water before the masage.

Mood adjustment - You've got to exude confidence if she's going to trust you. Stretch your hands — make fists and bend them backwards — to relax them. If you rush through, keen to get it over, she'll notice. But if you want to make her feel divine, take it slow and you will give a massage that will supplant almost every other physical experience she's had.

Talk to her - talking to her while massaging is a sure way to relax her. Although you know (and eager) that the massage will eventually lead to sex, avoid sexual topic as much as possible.

Butter her up - Warm the oil in your hands and spread it gently all over her body. Be careful not to put oil in her hair.

Rub her - Begin with soft, unhurried strokes, gradually building to something more intense. You can use a combination of 3 different types of stroking:

1. The wave - This is a long, gliding stroke. Use your whole hand, conform to the shape of her body as you pass over it, and use a firm pressure.
   


2. The Doughboy - This one's a kneading, lifting stroke that should be done rhythmically. Place both hands on her. With one hand, lift skin between your fingers and thumb, squeeze, and then move down in a V-shape, following along behind your first, and should also press down. Switch hands when you switch directions.
   


3. The Hypnotic - A firm stroke that presses in circles. With your fingers together, press down until you feel muscle. Make small circles, and move from the center to the side of the body. You can also use your thumbs instead of your other fingers.
   

Remember that good massage is almost guaranteed to lead directly to full sex. The disadvantage? You'll need to change the oiled sheets afterwards.

Recommended Reading: The 4-Hour Workweek: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich by Timothy Ferris

This book was written by Timothy Ferris, a 29-year old serial entrepreneur and ultravagabond, who has been featured in the New York Times, National Geographic Traveler, Maxim, and other media. He speaks six languages, runs a multinational firm from wireless locations worldwide, and has been a world-record holder in tango, a national champion in Chinese kickboxing, and an actor on a hit television series in Hong Kong. In this book, Ferriss teaches you simple ideas about optimization and efficiency and how to apply them to your job. The book answered the question, "How can I work smarter, not harder?"

Siteseeing: Quackwatch.com

This website exposes fraudulent cures and old wives tales, then provides information on where to get the right treatment. It makes fascinating reading and includes exposés on everything from acupuncture to weight loss. Use the search engine or just browse through the site; many of the articles leave you amazed at the fraudulent nature of some medical claims.

Gadget: Belkin F8V3080 TuneCast II Mobile FM Transmitter

Now you can use your iPod, PDA,MP3, CD, cassette player, PC, or laptop to listen to your favorite tunes through any FM stereo receiver. The Belkin TuneCast II Mobile FM Transmitter connects portable music players to your car or home stereo quickly and easily using FM radio waves. Just plug the TuneCast II into the headphone jack of your iPod, PDA,MP3, CD, or cassette player; or connect it to your PC or laptop computer. Tune your car stereo or receiver to any clear FM frequency, and enjoy your iPod music experience with more sound and fewer wires.

Babefinder: Josie Maran

For those who don't know who Josie Maran is, they will be surprised to find her face very familiar. This is mainly due to the fact that for years, she had been the face in a lot of ads of well-known brand, such as Guess?, Levis, Maybelline, Bebe and Sisley. She was also a regular model of Sports Illustrated Swimsuit and Victoria's Secret, and made numerous appearances on the cover of various magazines. This beautiful american supermodel was actually a mixture of Russian, Polish, Dutch, French and German. She started modelling at age 17, and also made short appearances on some films like Van Helsing and Aviator.

See more of Josie in this gallery.

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The US has more laws governing sexual behavior than do all countries in Europe combined.

Top 10 Turn-offs

So, you and your chatmate decided to meet for a date at last. You have been chatting for some time, been seeing each other thru webcam, and you really think that you and she have a lot of things in common. She seems to genuinely like you and interested in having a relationship with you.

And now you saw each other in person. After the initial plesantries, you started to talk. You feel that your were at your best - charming, witty and confident. But when you asked her what she wants for dinner, she replied that she can’t stay longer because she need to meet a friend of a friend or something. So she left, and while she was still amiable when she said goodbye, you had this feeling that you will never see her again.

Now you’re left alone wondering. What have gone wrong? You were on your best behavior and you can’t remember saying anything offensive during that few minutes.

While she might really have another appointment for the day, it is very much possible that it was just an excuse to leave. And though she may really liked talking with you, there was something she saw that turned her off. And here are the top 10 possible reasons:

10. Fashion sense – when you chat, she won’t mind whatever you are wearing. But it will be hilarious for her to see you in person wearing that leather pants.

9. Beer gut – surprise, surprise! She never realized that you are 8-month pregnant.

8. Untidy and dirty – you don’t need to look pristinely clean and neat, but she will be turned off if you have dirty hands or nails or if your shirt or pants looked like you have worn it for 2 weeks. And don’t forget your shoes as well.

7. Being shorter than her – Well, it may not even be your fault. You could be reasonably tall, but still, if she’s more than 3 inches taller than you and she is wearing heels, she would feel awkward being near you.

6. Annoying habits – maybe you are just nervous or excited seeing her, but if you keep biting your nails, scratching your head or excessively blinking your eyes, she will feel uncomfortable.

5. Dandruff – she thought it was just pixels on her monitor... now she knows.

4. Nose hair – Those things can be invisible with low resolution webcams, but make sure to trim them before you go on a date!

3. Stained teeth – unless you are Austin Powers, go to dentist and have your teeth polished.

2. Bad breath – hmmm.. how can you even think of kissing her?

1. Body odor – when she leave within 2 minutes of meeting you, it means she can't hold her breath any longer

Recommended Reading: Little Green Book of Getting Your Way by Jeffrey Gitomer

Author of other bestselling books like Little Red Book of Selling, Little Red Book of Sales Answers, Little Black Book of Connections, and The Little Gold Book of YES! Attitude, Jeffrey Gitomer this time tackles the art of persuasion and influence in The Little Green Book of Getting Your Way. Because persuasion occurs in so many different areas of life and business, Gitomer leads the reader from mental readiness to the principles of getting your way and the power that persuasion offers. He broke them down into easy principles that is easy to implemeent. He presents ideas that you can readily use and add to your existing sales process not only simple but effective.

As one of the most prolific speakers working today, Gitomer brings a unique blend of personal insight and techniques that have proven to be effective in selling your idea through speaking. These tips alone are some of the most valuable in the book.

The book ends challenging the reader how to think about excellence and eloquence. It will be up to the reader to take advantage of the opportunity and harness the power.

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I will be very short in describing this wonderful website. In fact, I only have two words for you: gadgets galore!

Gadget: Nike+ iPod Sport Shoe Wallet

The iPod Sport Kit Shoewallet from Shoewallet Active Gear is a simple product that provides a ton of value for under $10. This wallet not only securely carries the Ipod Sport sensor but also carries your cash, keys, ID, credit cards, hotel keys while you're on the go either securely to your shoe (undetectable to the user, even when full) or easily carry in a pocket or purse. Now available in 4 colors; Camouflage(new), Pink(new), Jet Black & Midnight blue.

The text above was taken from Amazon.com product description.

On a personal note, I do have this accessory and it is really very useful. I usually workout 2-3 times a week and I hated it trying to think of a way to hold onto my keys. This shoe wallet is a perfect solution when working out, cycling or running. It can hold onto your keys, some cash and ID.

Babefinder: Maggie Grace

Fans of the hit TV series Lost will surely recognize Maggie Grace as the spoilt blonde survivor Shannon who have a strange relationship with her step brother Boone. Born September 1983 in Ohio, Maggie started her acting career in an online weekly webisode called "Rachel's Room". Her biggest break, of course, was when she got casted as Shannon in Lost. She had also appeared in a remake of John Carpenter's The Fog, and is rumored to be playing as Shadowcat in X-men 3.

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Between 2000 and 2003, 496 female soldiers received free boob jobs from US military doctors.

Writing Love Letters

Most women will go crazy for a love letter. No, not an email or something you typed in your computer and print. Using a script font doesn't count either. What she would cherish is a proper letter written in your own handwriting on a well chosen paper. It would make her think that you are caring, sensitive and that you are enslaved with her.

Writing love letters can be difficult to most men. Men usually speaks with facts and information and it reflects the same way to their writing. However, by using the following points and with enough practice, you may be able to write that perfect letter:

• Use endearments. Using "Dear someone" is something you would use when you write with your boss or other colleagues. Be more intimate by using "My dearest someone" or if you have petnames you call each other, like honey or sweetheart, use it.
• Be inspired and creative. You don't need to suddenly become a poet. But you have to use words that convey emotions. Unlike what you do with formal writing, be generous with using adjectives. This way she can have more visual picture of what you are trying to express thru words. Quoting a verse from a poem or song that you both know is fine.
• Make it personal. Don't worry about anyone else reading your letter. Although there is big chance that she will show your letter to her closest friends, write your letter as if you are talking with her alone.
• Profess your feelings. Love letters have to be written with emotions. It has to convey your thoughts and feelings to her. Pour the words come out from your heart. But be careful not to sound like desparate.
• Make her feel you are always thinking of her. The main reason you write her a letter should be because you cant get her out of your mind. Reminding her of times you were together and how you felt that time is a simple but effective psychological trick. If done right, it will make her feel and warm and hopefully she'll forget the last time she caught you browsing porn sites in the web.
• Be subtle. Mentioning sex is a big no-no in love letters. You can, however, allude to it. For example, you can say "I can't wait until I can kiss and hold you again."
• Keep it short. She maybe would beimpressed if you write her a five-page letter. But it is always better to leave her wanting more.

Finally, be creative in delivering the letter to her. If you are far apart, it is okay to send it thru post. But if you basically see each other often, you can do various ways to slip the letter to her in a way that would surprise her. You can put it in the pages of the book she's reading. Or maybe stick it on her bathroom mirror and let her find it when she wakes up in the morning. Don't just hand it over to her like you are handing her a subpoena or something.

Recommended Reading: Extreme Sports: In Search of the Ultimate Thrill by Joe Tomlinson

If you only thing of skateboarding and snowboarding when you hear the term "extreme sports", think again. This book presents an introduction and insight to other sports that are guaranteed to bring thrills and frills. It covers sky surfing, caving, free-diving, speed biking, jet skiing, bungee jumping, and more.

The book categorizes the sports into air, land, and water, each of which profiles a variety of sports from the everyday to the almost totally unfamiliar. Each entry ranges from 2 to 10 pages and gives the history of the sport as well as some of the greats who have competed. It even covers the science aspect in some of the the entries, such as presenting a brief explanation of the basic physics behind the sports.

Siteseeing: PickTheHottie

Ok, so here you are sitting in front of the computer, you've got nothing to do, all your buddies too busy to go out to pubs with you, and theres nothing to watch on TV except those giraffes mating in discovery channel. Why not go over to PickTheHottie website, which is one of those many sites where people post of themselves and their friends (or enemies) and let the viewers give an opinion of the "hotness" level. Unlike other similar rating sites, this one don't use a number system but instead let you compare against another. Not really a useful site, but guarantee to make you pass the time and give your mouse-clicking finger some exercise.

Gadget: Magellan Maestro 4040 Portable GPS

With built-in AAA TourBook © travel information and member roadside assistance details, the Magellan Maestro 4040 Portable Auto GPS System is the ultimate travel companion. Re-engineered for easy use, it combines advanced features, elegance, and simplicity to make driving more pleasurable and less stressful. A few simple touches are all the Maestro 4040 needs to audibly guide you with turn-by-turn street name directions to virtually any destination in the United States and Canada. You can even customize your navigation method or route to get there quicker and stress-free.

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Babefinder: Katharine McPhee

I am not really a fan of "American Idol" TV show, but I have to admit that the show was able to produce some real good talents. One of those was lovely, graceful and long-legged Katharine McPhee. Born March 1984, Katharine was the runner-up to Taylor Hicks on the 5th season of American Idol in 2006. Armed with powerful voice, she was also featured on various magazines because of her good looks. She was also the subject of a controversy when In May 2006, Eric Lynch, better known as Eric the Midget, called in the Howard Stern Show and said that he measured his penis in exchange for McPhee’s personal telephone number. Apparently, the midget is a big fan the lovely idol.

Katharine released her debut CD in 2007, which features R&B pop songs "Love Story", "Not Ur Girl" and "Open Toes". See more pictures of her in this gallery.

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The first celebrity to appear totally nude in movies was Hedy Lamarr, at age sixteen, in a movie called Ecstasy.