Learn To Massage

Giving your girl a massage should be two things: relaxing and erotic. There are volumes of books and websites dedicated to teaching the technique. But for those who are in a hurry, here are a few pointers:

Set the atmosphere - Dim the lights, burn a scented candle and play some music your lady likes, then crank up your heating. All of this may sound cheesy, but it works. Lay her on her stomach (the bed's ideal for this, or use some towels and blankets on the floor). You'll need a squeeze bottle of scented message oil and lay it in a bowl of hot water. And wash your hands in hot water before the masage.

Mood adjustment - You've got to exude confidence if she's going to trust you. Stretch your hands — make fists and bend them backwards — to relax them. If you rush through, keen to get it over, she'll notice. But if you want to make her feel divine, take it slow and you will give a massage that will supplant almost every other physical experience she's had.

Talk to her - talking to her while massaging is a sure way to relax her. Although you know (and eager) that the massage will eventually lead to sex, avoid sexual topic as much as possible.

Butter her up - Warm the oil in your hands and spread it gently all over her body. Be careful not to put oil in her hair.

Rub her - Begin with soft, unhurried strokes, gradually building to something more intense. You can use a combination of 3 different types of stroking:

1. The wave - This is a long, gliding stroke. Use your whole hand, conform to the shape of her body as you pass over it, and use a firm pressure.
   


2. The Doughboy - This one's a kneading, lifting stroke that should be done rhythmically. Place both hands on her. With one hand, lift skin between your fingers and thumb, squeeze, and then move down in a V-shape, following along behind your first, and should also press down. Switch hands when you switch directions.
   


3. The Hypnotic - A firm stroke that presses in circles. With your fingers together, press down until you feel muscle. Make small circles, and move from the center to the side of the body. You can also use your thumbs instead of your other fingers.
   

Remember that good massage is almost guaranteed to lead directly to full sex. The disadvantage? You'll need to change the oiled sheets afterwards.

Recommended Reading: The 4-Hour Workweek: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich by Timothy Ferris

This book was written by Timothy Ferris, a 29-year old serial entrepreneur and ultravagabond, who has been featured in the New York Times, National Geographic Traveler, Maxim, and other media. He speaks six languages, runs a multinational firm from wireless locations worldwide, and has been a world-record holder in tango, a national champion in Chinese kickboxing, and an actor on a hit television series in Hong Kong. In this book, Ferriss teaches you simple ideas about optimization and efficiency and how to apply them to your job. The book answered the question, "How can I work smarter, not harder?"

Siteseeing: Quackwatch.com

This website exposes fraudulent cures and old wives tales, then provides information on where to get the right treatment. It makes fascinating reading and includes exposés on everything from acupuncture to weight loss. Use the search engine or just browse through the site; many of the articles leave you amazed at the fraudulent nature of some medical claims.

Gadget: Belkin F8V3080 TuneCast II Mobile FM Transmitter

Now you can use your iPod, PDA,MP3, CD, cassette player, PC, or laptop to listen to your favorite tunes through any FM stereo receiver. The Belkin TuneCast II Mobile FM Transmitter connects portable music players to your car or home stereo quickly and easily using FM radio waves. Just plug the TuneCast II into the headphone jack of your iPod, PDA,MP3, CD, or cassette player; or connect it to your PC or laptop computer. Tune your car stereo or receiver to any clear FM frequency, and enjoy your iPod music experience with more sound and fewer wires.

Babefinder: Josie Maran

For those who don't know who Josie Maran is, they will be surprised to find her face very familiar. This is mainly due to the fact that for years, she had been the face in a lot of ads of well-known brand, such as Guess?, Levis, Maybelline, Bebe and Sisley. She was also a regular model of Sports Illustrated Swimsuit and Victoria's Secret, and made numerous appearances on the cover of various magazines. This beautiful american supermodel was actually a mixture of Russian, Polish, Dutch, French and German. She started modelling at age 17, and also made short appearances on some films like Van Helsing and Aviator.

See more of Josie in this gallery.

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The US has more laws governing sexual behavior than do all countries in Europe combined.

Top 10 Turn-offs

So, you and your chatmate decided to meet for a date at last. You have been chatting for some time, been seeing each other thru webcam, and you really think that you and she have a lot of things in common. She seems to genuinely like you and interested in having a relationship with you.

And now you saw each other in person. After the initial plesantries, you started to talk. You feel that your were at your best - charming, witty and confident. But when you asked her what she wants for dinner, she replied that she can’t stay longer because she need to meet a friend of a friend or something. So she left, and while she was still amiable when she said goodbye, you had this feeling that you will never see her again.

Now you’re left alone wondering. What have gone wrong? You were on your best behavior and you can’t remember saying anything offensive during that few minutes.

While she might really have another appointment for the day, it is very much possible that it was just an excuse to leave. And though she may really liked talking with you, there was something she saw that turned her off. And here are the top 10 possible reasons:

10. Fashion sense – when you chat, she won’t mind whatever you are wearing. But it will be hilarious for her to see you in person wearing that leather pants.

9. Beer gut – surprise, surprise! She never realized that you are 8-month pregnant.

8. Untidy and dirty – you don’t need to look pristinely clean and neat, but she will be turned off if you have dirty hands or nails or if your shirt or pants looked like you have worn it for 2 weeks. And don’t forget your shoes as well.

7. Being shorter than her – Well, it may not even be your fault. You could be reasonably tall, but still, if she’s more than 3 inches taller than you and she is wearing heels, she would feel awkward being near you.

6. Annoying habits – maybe you are just nervous or excited seeing her, but if you keep biting your nails, scratching your head or excessively blinking your eyes, she will feel uncomfortable.

5. Dandruff – she thought it was just pixels on her monitor... now she knows.

4. Nose hair – Those things can be invisible with low resolution webcams, but make sure to trim them before you go on a date!

3. Stained teeth – unless you are Austin Powers, go to dentist and have your teeth polished.

2. Bad breath – hmmm.. how can you even think of kissing her?

1. Body odor – when she leave within 2 minutes of meeting you, it means she can't hold her breath any longer

Recommended Reading: Little Green Book of Getting Your Way by Jeffrey Gitomer

Author of other bestselling books like Little Red Book of Selling, Little Red Book of Sales Answers, Little Black Book of Connections, and The Little Gold Book of YES! Attitude, Jeffrey Gitomer this time tackles the art of persuasion and influence in The Little Green Book of Getting Your Way. Because persuasion occurs in so many different areas of life and business, Gitomer leads the reader from mental readiness to the principles of getting your way and the power that persuasion offers. He broke them down into easy principles that is easy to implemeent. He presents ideas that you can readily use and add to your existing sales process not only simple but effective.

As one of the most prolific speakers working today, Gitomer brings a unique blend of personal insight and techniques that have proven to be effective in selling your idea through speaking. These tips alone are some of the most valuable in the book.

The book ends challenging the reader how to think about excellence and eloquence. It will be up to the reader to take advantage of the opportunity and harness the power.

Siteseeing: Firebox.com

I will be very short in describing this wonderful website. In fact, I only have two words for you: gadgets galore!

Gadget: Nike+ iPod Sport Shoe Wallet

The iPod Sport Kit Shoewallet from Shoewallet Active Gear is a simple product that provides a ton of value for under $10. This wallet not only securely carries the Ipod Sport sensor but also carries your cash, keys, ID, credit cards, hotel keys while you're on the go either securely to your shoe (undetectable to the user, even when full) or easily carry in a pocket or purse. Now available in 4 colors; Camouflage(new), Pink(new), Jet Black & Midnight blue.

The text above was taken from Amazon.com product description.

On a personal note, I do have this accessory and it is really very useful. I usually workout 2-3 times a week and I hated it trying to think of a way to hold onto my keys. This shoe wallet is a perfect solution when working out, cycling or running. It can hold onto your keys, some cash and ID.

Babefinder: Maggie Grace

Fans of the hit TV series Lost will surely recognize Maggie Grace as the spoilt blonde survivor Shannon who have a strange relationship with her step brother Boone. Born September 1983 in Ohio, Maggie started her acting career in an online weekly webisode called "Rachel's Room". Her biggest break, of course, was when she got casted as Shannon in Lost. She had also appeared in a remake of John Carpenter's The Fog, and is rumored to be playing as Shadowcat in X-men 3.

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Between 2000 and 2003, 496 female soldiers received free boob jobs from US military doctors.

Writing Love Letters

Most women will go crazy for a love letter. No, not an email or something you typed in your computer and print. Using a script font doesn't count either. What she would cherish is a proper letter written in your own handwriting on a well chosen paper. It would make her think that you are caring, sensitive and that you are enslaved with her.

Writing love letters can be difficult to most men. Men usually speaks with facts and information and it reflects the same way to their writing. However, by using the following points and with enough practice, you may be able to write that perfect letter:

• Use endearments. Using "Dear someone" is something you would use when you write with your boss or other colleagues. Be more intimate by using "My dearest someone" or if you have petnames you call each other, like honey or sweetheart, use it.
• Be inspired and creative. You don't need to suddenly become a poet. But you have to use words that convey emotions. Unlike what you do with formal writing, be generous with using adjectives. This way she can have more visual picture of what you are trying to express thru words. Quoting a verse from a poem or song that you both know is fine.
• Make it personal. Don't worry about anyone else reading your letter. Although there is big chance that she will show your letter to her closest friends, write your letter as if you are talking with her alone.
• Profess your feelings. Love letters have to be written with emotions. It has to convey your thoughts and feelings to her. Pour the words come out from your heart. But be careful not to sound like desparate.
• Make her feel you are always thinking of her. The main reason you write her a letter should be because you cant get her out of your mind. Reminding her of times you were together and how you felt that time is a simple but effective psychological trick. If done right, it will make her feel and warm and hopefully she'll forget the last time she caught you browsing porn sites in the web.
• Be subtle. Mentioning sex is a big no-no in love letters. You can, however, allude to it. For example, you can say "I can't wait until I can kiss and hold you again."
• Keep it short. She maybe would beimpressed if you write her a five-page letter. But it is always better to leave her wanting more.

Finally, be creative in delivering the letter to her. If you are far apart, it is okay to send it thru post. But if you basically see each other often, you can do various ways to slip the letter to her in a way that would surprise her. You can put it in the pages of the book she's reading. Or maybe stick it on her bathroom mirror and let her find it when she wakes up in the morning. Don't just hand it over to her like you are handing her a subpoena or something.

Recommended Reading: Extreme Sports: In Search of the Ultimate Thrill by Joe Tomlinson

If you only thing of skateboarding and snowboarding when you hear the term "extreme sports", think again. This book presents an introduction and insight to other sports that are guaranteed to bring thrills and frills. It covers sky surfing, caving, free-diving, speed biking, jet skiing, bungee jumping, and more.

The book categorizes the sports into air, land, and water, each of which profiles a variety of sports from the everyday to the almost totally unfamiliar. Each entry ranges from 2 to 10 pages and gives the history of the sport as well as some of the greats who have competed. It even covers the science aspect in some of the the entries, such as presenting a brief explanation of the basic physics behind the sports.

Siteseeing: PickTheHottie

Ok, so here you are sitting in front of the computer, you've got nothing to do, all your buddies too busy to go out to pubs with you, and theres nothing to watch on TV except those giraffes mating in discovery channel. Why not go over to PickTheHottie website, which is one of those many sites where people post of themselves and their friends (or enemies) and let the viewers give an opinion of the "hotness" level. Unlike other similar rating sites, this one don't use a number system but instead let you compare against another. Not really a useful site, but guarantee to make you pass the time and give your mouse-clicking finger some exercise.

Gadget: Magellan Maestro 4040 Portable GPS

With built-in AAA TourBook © travel information and member roadside assistance details, the Magellan Maestro 4040 Portable Auto GPS System is the ultimate travel companion. Re-engineered for easy use, it combines advanced features, elegance, and simplicity to make driving more pleasurable and less stressful. A few simple touches are all the Maestro 4040 needs to audibly guide you with turn-by-turn street name directions to virtually any destination in the United States and Canada. You can even customize your navigation method or route to get there quicker and stress-free.

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Babefinder: Katharine McPhee

I am not really a fan of "American Idol" TV show, but I have to admit that the show was able to produce some real good talents. One of those was lovely, graceful and long-legged Katharine McPhee. Born March 1984, Katharine was the runner-up to Taylor Hicks on the 5th season of American Idol in 2006. Armed with powerful voice, she was also featured on various magazines because of her good looks. She was also the subject of a controversy when In May 2006, Eric Lynch, better known as Eric the Midget, called in the Howard Stern Show and said that he measured his penis in exchange for McPhee’s personal telephone number. Apparently, the midget is a big fan the lovely idol.

Katharine released her debut CD in 2007, which features R&B pop songs "Love Story", "Not Ur Girl" and "Open Toes". See more pictures of her in this gallery.

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The first celebrity to appear totally nude in movies was Hedy Lamarr, at age sixteen, in a movie called Ecstasy.

Decoding Her Signals

So, you met a woman and were able to strike up a conversation. You think you were incredibly charming and witty and on a roll. In your mind, you were already picturing her and yourself together on a date, or even in bed. However, you would need to be like a detective if you want to know if she really likes you. Unlike men, women use signals and body language to express her feelings about someone. It is up to you to decode those signals so you can decide whether to continue with your endeavor or better move on and find another one.

Here are some telltale signs to look out for:

Eye contact – the more she looks directly at your eyes when she talks with you generally means she is interested at you. You know you hit the jackpot if she stared at you without blinking while you are speaking and her mouth slightly open as if she’s being hypnotized with every word that you say.

Smile – she could be just being polite by smiling, so you should be able to know the difference between a courteous smile with a broad, warm smile, which means that she is enjoying her conversation with you.

Giggling – if she laughs like she don’t care about her poise, it just means that she finds something really funny and is being with you just like with friends. However, if she giggles in a feminine way, it means she is being charming and flirting with you.

Leaning – notice how her body is aligned toward yours. If she is facing slightly away from you, it means that she is still waiting for someone else to come and talk with her. If she face towards and closer to you, it means you can talk with her the whole evening (assuming you don’t mess up).

Facial expressions – look for dilated pupils and flushed cheeks. These are signs that bloodflow is rushing to her head which could only mean that she is excited with you being there.

Touching you – slight brushes to your arms or even touching your hands while she talks means she wants to get more closer or even intimate with you.

Touching herself – stroking her hair, fixing her clothes, playing with her jewelry, running her hands thru her legs are things women do unconsciously which are equivalent to birds preening with their mate. You do have to be careful though as it could also mean that she’s bored.

Recommended Reading: The Complete Book of Questions: 1001 Conversation Starters for Any Occasion by Gary Poole

Most of us realize that raising questions is a powerful way to get interesting dialogue. But asking good ones can be another matter—they’re not always that easy to think up! That’s where The Complete Book of Questions comes in. This book is one big compilation of questions—1001 of them you can use to launch great conversations in almost any context. And many of these questions are likely to trigger other questions you may also wish to discuss. Think of this book as a tool to spark interaction—and to know and understand others, and yourself, better.

The questions in The Complete Book of Questions have been divided into ten categories for easy reference as shown in the chart below. There are probably as many ways to put this book to use, as there are questions within it! So be creative. Experiment with these 1001 questions in different contexts—and be sure to make the most of the conversations that ensue!

Siteseeing: askmen.com

Since I just returned from a vacation, forgive me for not being able to spend more time to prepare for this post. I really have no idea on which website to recommend this time, so I am going with the one that I have known for a long time. Askmen.com is one of the premiere web portals for men. There’s a lot of useful articles here, ranging from men’s health issues, dating, lifestyle, fashion, etc. And of course, there is a gallery of beautiful women. This website has been around for a long time and is quite popular, that is why I feel like I am recommending you to use Google to do searching. Still, I am mentioning this site in case some readers still don’t know about it.

Gadget: Omron HJ-112 Pocket Pedometer

Being a man, you need to take care of your health and be fit. This will be handy during sex, as it will give you confidence and stamina to last longer. And you don’t have to hold your breath when you get naked to make your belly appear smaller.

The easiest way to be fit is by walking regularly. And what a better way to track all your walking than with a high-tech gadget?

The Omron HJ-112 Pocket Pedometer is an advanced, high-tech pedometer that--thanks to unique dual sensor technology--can be carried in your pocket or bag. Now you can just drop your pedometer in your purse to find out how much exercise you get in a typical day of work, errands, and other tasks. Of course, you can also attach it to your belt like a traditional pedometer.

The HJ-112 accurately measures your steps, as well as aerobic steps and minutes. You can also use it to measure calorie consumption during your workout, as well as the distance you've traveled. I have this gadget myself, and I tell you, it is fun to check your measurements and can somehow motivate me to do some more walking.

Babefinder: Keeley Hazell

Our babefinder feature for this post is someone who is fast becoming as the fantasy of most men. With a curvacious body, soft sexy eyes, and charming smile, British model Keeley Hazell has captured the imagination of every man who had seen her photos. Born September 1986, Keeley started as a regular Page 3 girl for the tabloid Sun. Soon, other magazines began noticing her, which resulted in her being featured in major men’s magazines such as FHM, Maxim, Zoo and Loaded. In addition with her photoshoot videos, she also appeared in calendars, making her breast being photographed and published more than the London Bridge. Earlier this year, a sex tape of her and ex-boyfriend Lloyd Miller was leaked on the internet which caused Keeley to get very upset and even sought the police for help. I have seen that video, and unlike Paris Hilton’s video, this one just make me raise Keeley’s hotness level even more.

Click here for more pictures (non-nude) of Keeley. If you want to see her glorious “assets”, do your own internet searching, or better yet, buy her calendar. And don’t ask me for a copy of her sex video. I’m not telling you either where I downloaded it – no, I’m not being selfish; I just want you to work hard for it if you really want it.

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The first couple to be shown in bed together on prime-time television was Fred and Wilma Flintstone.

Time To Rewind

I will be going for a little R&R starting this weekend and while I have my notebook with me, I am not sure if I will be able to blog as I may be busy doing some "things". No, it doesn't mean I will be drunk and wasted the whole week. Well, maybe just for few days, but definitely not the whole week. I will actually be spending time in a beach resort, and that means sunshine, pina colada and of course, lots of babes to watch.

Bed Manners

Tons of books have been published regarding sex positions and often men were hung up on trying to learn and master these “tricks of the trade”. However, there is much more to sex aside from being a gymnast. Positions are the least of what you should worry about. There are other things, which may seem small, that you should be wary of if you truly want your partner to enjoy her experience with you:

• Shave – although some women find unshaved men sexy, your stubbles will rake her face and body when you kiss her. Remember that women’s skins are more sensitive than men’s are.
• Spend lots of time kissing her – Avoiding to kiss her lips and going straight to her erogenous zones will make her feel that you want to hurry up.
• Undress her slowly – Women don’t want to look awkward and stupid, so undress her slowly and gracefully.
• Take off your socks first – A man in underwear with socks on will be hilarious to her. Take off your socks first before your pants.
• Be gentle with her breast – Your hands are big, your skin is rough and your grip is strong. Keep that in mind when you touch her softest and most sensitive part. And don’t treat it as if you are trying to find a radio station.
• Avoid distracting sounds – only moaning and giggling sounds are allowed during sex. Avoid making the bed creak. Don’t make a sound by slapping your stomach against her. Don’t slurp while you are kissing her or licking her down there. And don’t belch after that.
• Don’t arrange her in stupid poses – unless you know she’s a gymnast and is willing to do that in bed, you are risking her to break a bone. And don’t command her what to do – you are not a drill sergeant.
• Don’t be fast and furious – you are not in a race.
• Don’t thank her after sex… and don’t go to sleep as soon as you are finished.

Recommended Reading: LL Cool J’s Platinum Workout

LL Cool J is a three-time Grammy winner, a tv and movie actor, and also one of the most fit rapper. In this book, LL shares the secrets of how he developed his incredible physique thru hard work and discipline. Reading the book can make you feel the coolness factor, as the text is written in LL Cool J’s conversational style. It is inspiring, and presents a no-nonsense approach to body building.

Siteseeing: Agloco

I know this is a bit off-topic for this blog, but I just have to mention about this site (and I am desperate to get more referrals -- so please, please, please, sign up!). Agloco is a new internet company with a novel idea — it will let you, as a user, earn money or own shares. The reason is simple — advertisers would want to deliver their ads to viewers. By paying people to install and use their viewbar (available for download by early next month), Agloco guarantees the advertisers that their ads will be delivered and viewed.

Personally, I think this business model has great potential, and a lot of web users already jumped on the bandwagon and created their own Agloco-related websites or blog. If you want to see a good one, I recommend CaféAgloco which is one magnificent blog. Actually, I authored that blog, so you can understand why I favored it.

Gadget: Amazon.com’s Trunk Essentials

If you drive a car, you know that there are a lot of unexpected things that may happen while you are on the road. These set of tools were selected by Amazon’s automotive team as essential tools you should keep on your trunk so you will be safe and prepared. This is a good and practical recommendation and I suggest you to take a look at it.

Babefinder: Daniela Hantuchova

This week we feature one of the hottest and most exciting faces in women’s tennis today. No, it’s not Anna Kournikova or Maria Sharapova. Those two are too popular that there are already a cult of websites dedicated to them. Instead, we have Slovakian player Daniela Hantuchova, who is actually not far behind those two in accumulating male tennis fans all over the world.

Born in Slovakia on April 1983, Daniela is now living in Monte Carlo, Monaco. Having an angelic smile and a supermodel body figure, Daniela is also extremely athletic and agile in the tennis court. She was WTA’s 2001 Newcomer of the Year, and 2002 Most Improved Player Of The Year. She is currently ranked number 12. Her highest ranking was #5 back in August 2002.

See more pictures of Daniela here.

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Experts estimate that a real orgasm burns 112 calories. A faked orgasm burns 315 calories.

A Hundred Reasons

I recently watched 100 girls again in DVD. I liked this movie a lot mainly because it has witty dialogues, hilarious situations and enjoyable scenes. Obviously, as the title suggest, there’s a lot of girls in the movie, three of which are my personal favorites – Katherine Heigl, Jamie Pressly and our babefind for today. The movie is about Matt (Jonathan Tucker) and a mystery lady being stucked in an elevator during a blackout. He then made a quest to find that girl by looking at each girl's drawers and find a lingerie that matches the one the girl left behind (sort of like Prince Charming looking for Cinderella). In the process, he got to know women with different personalities and an understanding of what women really are. So, for you guys out there, see this movie and you will be more sensitive and gain wisdom of how to treat girls. Besides, whom among us guys don’t dream of working in a girl’s dormitory like Matt? Imagine walking on the corridor, with all those young girls in their lingerie. That’s so awesome!

Anyway, there is a portion in the movie where Matt gave out the following narration – it is an honest and direct reasoning of why men are crazy about women’s sensuality:

I love women.
I love those emerald pools masquerading as eyes.
Lips. I love smiles. And yawns. The eating.
With skin so soft, women are head to toe cashmere.
A woman’s skin inspires a man’s fingers to have Magellan’s love of exploration.
It’s women’s bellies that drive me wild.
It’s more than just the fact that it’s the only part of a woman’s body you can easily see naked.
The belly hints at the pleasures beyond.
You’re so near and yet so far.
Everything about a woman draws you to her sexuality.
The small triangle between her legs is like the head of an arrow which points – go here! Go here!
Or if you follow the graceful lines of the pectoralis major, it inevitably draws your eyes to the golden orbs. Climaxed by the nipple.
God is in the details. And the nipple is His greatest detail.

Things women love

If you love women as much as Matt in the movie, you have to know what women like. Remember that women’s sensuality are driven by emotional stimuli, unlike us men which are driven by physical stimuli. Often, we men expect women to be the same – but we are not. Here, for example, are some things that most women love. Most of them are so obvious, but guys still failed to recognize it.

• Flowers – the symbolic language brought by flowers is still a mystery to man. I have never met any woman who doesn’t appreciate receiving any kind of flowers.
• Candlelight – somehow, the softness of the light combined with the sweet aroma of scented candles makes a woman feel sexy and sets up her romantic mood quickly.
• Chocolates – The chemicals in chocolates gives a good feeling to everyone (not just women). Women, however, love to receive anything sweet. They usually associate the sweet taste to you being sweet to her. But be careful not to overdo this. In this age of diet awareness, some women may think you are making her fat.
• Jewelry – Men loves beautiful women, and women love beautiful things. And what could be more beautiful than a nice, sparkling jewelry? Giving women jewelries made them feel like a princess, which is what most of them fantasized when they were kids.
• Stuffed toys – Give a woman a cute, cuddly teddy bear and she will cherish it and even take it to sleep with her. An added bonus is that she will think of you everytime she hugs that toy.
• Cards/Love letters/Phone Calls – In the age of email, sms and instant messaging, women still appreciate getting a card or a handwritten love note. It sends a message that you are always thinking of her. Calling her on phone while you are at work will sure to spark her feelings about you.
• Massage – We all know that massage feels good, especially after a hard day’s work. For women, it also gives a sense of intimacy and a feeling that she is being cared of.
• Poetry or Song you wrote for her – what could be more romantic than you telling her how you feel about her through poetry or song?
• Sincere compliments – women will never get tired of hearing of compliments. After all, they took great effort and time to look that good, so a compliment will make her feel it was all worth it. But you have to make it sound sincere.
• Manners – They would say that women are equals and all, but chivalry still counts a lot for women. Open the door for her. Carry her shopping bags. Pull out a chair for her when dining.
• Good conversation – talk and pour your heart out to her but don’t forget to listen to her as well.
• Humor – not the toilet jokes that you are so proud of, but a good sense of humor to keep her laughing with you (with, not at you -- so don’t make self-deprecating jokes).
• Shoes & Bags – Hmmm… I really have no idea why. I just know that they love it. If anyone can give a logical explanation, please leave me a message.

Recommended reading:

Hidden Underneath: A History Of Lingerie by Farid Chenoune

I know history is one subject you hated back in school. But I’m pretty sure this is a history book that you will be interested to read. Discover the history of one of the most fascinating invention ever by man – lingerie. This book offers in-depth knowledge on how lingerie came to be a million dollar industry. Then, the next time you are in bed with your woman, you can tell her trivia facts about her lingerie while taking it off slowly.

Siteseeing: Feed My iPods

I consider my iPod as one of the gadgets that I can’t live without. It is especially useful during the long hours of travel. And I discovered that I am not alone with this – a lot of iPod users are hooked into this tiny but wonderful device.

FeedMyIpods.com is a well-recognized portal for downloading files for iPod – music, movies, sports, tv shows and more. What’s good with this site is that it has a fixed fee, not per download as most sites are. And with more than 95 million files available on their network, you can download without limits and feed your iPod all it can handle.

FeedMyiPods.com guides you step by step with simple video tutorials so you can begin downloading your favorite song or movie in minutes!

Gadget: Executive Desktop Foosball

Going back to 100 girls movie, there are scenes in the movie where Matt played strip foosball with Arlene (Katherine Heigl). So, if you are planning to do the same, I suggest this toy from AreYouGame. This stained-wood foosball table is compact and elegant enough to decorate a desk, but ruggedly constructed for real competition. Even if you have no girl to play strip foosball with, this toy will also provide hours of funs for you and your buddies.

Babefinder: Emmanuelle Chriqui

Emmanuelle Chriqui (pronounced as shree-kee") played the role of Patty, a promiscuous artsy girl who taught Matt a thing or two about sex in the movie 100 Girls. She was born on 1977 in the Canadian city of Montreal. Amazingly stunning and sexy, Emmanuelle is not just another pretty face, but she also has the talents to go far in Hollywood. Among the films she has appeared in are Wrong Turn, Waiting, The Crow: Wicked Prayer and National Lampoon's Adam & Eve. She also has a movie coming out this year entitled "After Sex" -- that's one interesting title.

See more pictures of Emmanuelle here.

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Makeover

I finally decided to move this blog to new template. Blogger has been asking me for sometime to do it, but I couldn't because I did a lot of customization to it and don't want to do it all over again. Anyway, I did it -- and to my surprise, it was not too bad. The new features were great and easy to use. I was able to change it back to what I wanted without editing the html template itself.

Sometimes change is something we just have to embrace. We are so reluctant to change because we people taught us that "If it ain't broke, don't fix it". But things don't have to be broke before you make changes. Improvements count a lot. If it can make something to look better, perform better, or used more efficiently, then it is worth to face changes.

There’s a lots of things to improve one self. Fitness, for example, is something most men tend to neglect. They are all busy with work that they don’t find time to exercise. Their thinking is that they don’t get sick, so therefore, they are fit.

Getting fit does not necessarily means going to the gym. Although that is the best way to do it, there are other ways to exercise. Taking a longer walk to the office for example, is something you can do everyday. Park your car farther from your office. If you ride a public transportation, get off two stops before your usual stop. Regular walking is one of the best ways to burn fat. Who knows, you might even bump into a pretty woman while on your way. The longer you walk, the more chance you might meet someone.

Another thing you have to improve is your mind. Always find something to learn. Do not be content to what you already know. There is no limit to gaining knowledge. You don’t even need to study subjects you hated when you were in school. Find something that interests you. Read something everyday. Browse websites. Watch the news. Not only will it add to your knowledge, you will find another subject that you can talk about. And it may open up another avenue for you to meet others.

The language of flowers

In the beginning, God created man, Adam. Then God found that Adam is lonely, so He created a woman for his companion. And her name was Eve. Adam was happy at first – until he found out that God created Eve with something called “moods”. And it was never the same again in paradise. One day, while thinking what to say to Eve, Adam find something red growing out in the plants in God’s garden. Surprised, he plucked one out and looked for God to ask what it is. On his way, he saw Eve and without saying a word, handed that red thing to her. To his surprise, Eve gave him a kiss and a hug and later that evening she even gave him what he had been asking for a long time – a nice, good dinner (its not anal sex as you think, you pervert). Since then, man had discovered the powers that flowers can do with woman. It expresses what men want women to know -- that we are caring, thoughtful and sweet. It’s just that we don’t have the vocabularies to say it with our own words.

Here are some tips when giving flowers to women:

• Do your best to tailor the flower to the recipient. Find out if it's her favorite flower or try to match the color with her eyes.
• “Just because” is the best reason to send flowers! You don’t need an occasion to give her flower. Try sending flowers in the middle of an ordinary week for the ultimate impact.
• Try something new. Roses are most popular, but women will like others as well.
• Get to know your florist. They usually know more about flowers and the best way to use it to express your emotions. For example, different colors and numbers of roses symbolize different things.
• Don’t forget to write something in the card. A personal, well-thought message works the best.
• When handing out the flowers to her by yourself, carry it in full view (don’t put it in a plastic bag). She will love it more if other people (especially women she knows) saw you gave it to her.

Remember that flowers are very romantic. And romance is the language of love. Learn the language and you will get laid a lot.

Recommended reading

Undercover Sex Signals is not just another book teaching how to read body language. It gives insight to some “signals” which men usually don’t recognize, and then advises on how to react to those signals. Leil Lowndes actually is a woman, and a woman writing a book on this subject seems more credible. The book is well written, and as with other books by Leil, it is easy to read and filled with humor. This book is recommended for all guys who are trying to find out what it takes to meet women. It’s a great confidence builder knowing how to read all those signals.

Gadget: Fujitsu LifeBook P1610

The Fujitsu LifeBook P1610 is not your ordinary notebook computer. You can rotate the 8.9 inch, hi-res widescreen transforming it into a Tablet PC. Pull out the stylus and scrawl on the touchscreen, or if you prefer, just tap away with your finger. It’s tiny (weighing just 20 pounds), fast and Vista-ready. With 80GB hard disk, there’s plenty of room for those videos, music and photos. Built-in 3G, Wi-Fi and Bluetooth assure you of getting connection easily.

Siteseeing: BoozeTime

BoozeTime is a great website portal for all things regarding men’s favorite topic -- booze. You’ll find pictures of drunk people, beer commercials, funny beer signs, beer facts and more. Its guarantee to make you spend hours and hours of laughter and while away the time if you are bored.

Babefinder: Emma Griffiths


Lovely MTV UK presenter Emma Griffiths is gorgeous, cool, fun and a total natural on screen. Started as a model at young age of 17, she has traveled the world doing modeling jobs for Elle, Vogue, Chanel and GAP to name a few. Recently, she has done some sexy photoshoots for Maxim and FHM magazines. It will be just a matter of time before the talented and lovely Emma grace the silver screen.


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Operating Manual

Most men spend a lot of time looking and staring at women's body that they can claim mastery of women's anatomy and even knew medical terms of the parts of women's genitals. But very few men have a clue with their own sexual organs. That is why men have different nicknames for their penises (Willy, Mr. Happy, Big Daddy, etc). They think it's another person with a complete different persona and presence of its own. This is also reason why there are so many books teaching men about sex. It is, actually, a manual on how to operate that "thing".

Your first night with her

So, you were finally able to ask her to your place and convinced her to sleep with you. Being a guy, you are just itching to show your sex prowess. But wait just a minute. Now will be the time to give her pleasure and to show her that it was worth her while coming and spending the night with you. Make her feel that you are a sensitive, trustworthy and gentle guy which is probably the impression you made to her. If she suddenly realizes that you are a barbaric animal in bed, you may not be able to see her again, or worse, she may suddenly remember that she has to do something and leave you alone.

• Check your ambience. While it is important to set the mood by using candles or music, make sure that it is not an obvious overture to sex. For example, don't play music with a women moaning "ooh" and "aah" in the background or a candleholder with a figure of a naked woman.
• Hide your props. It may be fine is she sees a playboy magazine in your room. But don't let her know that you have a complete subscription. Also, never ever let her see your magazines with titles like "Bondage Connoisseur" or "Senior Citizens Gone Wild" or anything like that. In addition, if she saw more that you have more than two boxes of condom in your bedside drawer, she might freak out. Better hide away your vibrators, whips, pumps, or whatever gadget you bought at adult store. And no, don't ask her to wear that school girl uniform you think is sexy.
• Mind her clothes. When taking off her clothes, do not just throw it on the floor. You can do that with her undies, but take time to make sure you take proper care of her shirts or blouse.
• Tone down on your language. Dirty talking may be a huge turn-on for you. However, don't let her hear that you have mastery of porn lingo. Moaning her name softly is fine. Just make sure that it’s really her name you are whispering and not the name of your fantasy. Asking her to talk dirty is a big no-no too.
• Slow down. Yes, restrain yourself, you animal. Spend lots of time kissing, touching, and playing. Don't get down to business at once.
• Just do the basics. You may have mastered all 1001 sexual positions, but don't try to change positions too much. And don't do those exotic positions just because you knew that she took gymnastics when she was in high school. Do not try to re-enact scenes from movies you have seen either.
• Show her you care. After sex, don't get up and watch TV. And don't sleep either. Take her in your arms, talk with her or just enjoy the moment being with her.

Remember, the key is to make her comfortable mentally and physically. Make her feel safe, and provide an intimate relationship with her. Make the experience pleasurable and enjoyable for her so that she would want to be with you again and again.

Recommended reading:

While working as a marriage counselor for more than 30 years, Gary Chapman identified five love languages: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. In his book The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate (Men's Edition) Gary explained each love language in an engaging, humorous way. A lot of lessons can be learned from this book that it is highly recommended for men who wants to keep his relationship going.

Gadget: Flat Screen TV

More and more people are switching now to Flat screen TV's as they are getting more and more affordable. Admit it, don't you dream of watching Scarlett Johannsen or Angelina Jolie on a 40 inch television? So, if you are planning to buy one now, check out this article I posted on another site: Choosing a flat screen TV

Siteseeing: VideoJug

Most people have difficulty learning just by reading books. Showing someone how to do it is way better approach. For those who want to learn something, check out the videos in videojug.com. There are various educational and funny video here, ranging from food and drinks to beauty and health topics, and useful things like "how to kiss passionately" and "how to unhook bra with one hand". This is like YouTube, only more useful.

Babefinder: Sophie Monk

A former member of the pop group Bardot, Australian Sophie Monk had invaded hollywood as well, playing as Marilyn Monroe in a high-budget TV series "The Mystery of Natalie Wood". She also appeared in movies "Click" and "Date Movie". She continued her singing career when she released a solo album in 2003 called "Calendar Girl". The sexy singer/actress/model however is already engaged with a member of punk band Good Charlotte.

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Starting Over

Well, after more than 2 years of collecting web and dust, I decided to resurrect this blog and give it one more shot. This time I will post more often... I can't promise that I can do it every day, but I will try to post at least once a week. I will also abandon the old format of creating separate post for each article. Instead, it will be more like a newsletter format and all articles will be presented in one post.

Things to do this year

Speaking of starting over, here are some things you should try to do this year. A lot of you may be thinking that its already February and its too late to make a list like this. Well, just in case you don't know, the new year have just started according to the chinese. While I'm not of chinese origin, I do have strong belief in the oriental astrology and mysticism (forgive my lame excuse please). Anyway, here are the things to accomplish in the year of the pig:

1. Have sex in public... and I mean real sex (not just petting) in a real public place. Doing it in a public place inside the car is not counted... unless your car is a convertible.
2. Meet someone you chat with in Internet and have sex with her.
3. Meet someone in a bar, take her to your place, have sex, without even asking her name.
   
4. Join the mile high club.
5. Have a threesome.
6. Repeat number 5, only this time with a twin.
   
7. Date a librarian.
   

I don't know about you, but that last one has always been in my yearly goal and I find it the hardest one to accomplish. If you hame similar goals this year, please let me know by posting in the comments section.

Scent of a man

Smell is one of our most primitive and powerful sense. So powerful is smell that at times, a girl would recall a guy just by the way he smells. Often, you would hear a woman say something like "Oh God, I loved how he smelled", or even "I love what my pillows smelled after he slept over". Be aware that a woman's sense of smell is much more sensitive than a man's. So it is very important that you pay attention on how you engage her smell senses.

• Check in with her about your aftershave, cologne or perfume. Each woman have different response to different smell, and what may be a delicious scent to one woman may be offensive to another one. Spend a bit more bucks on your colognes or perfumes if you want to use one. If you will use cheap ones, it might be better not to use at all. Some woman are more attracted to man's natural smell anyway. Some of my personal favorites are: Armani Code, Ralph Lauren Polo Sport, and Hugo Boss In Motion.
  
• Make sure all your bed sheets, pillow covers, linens, towels are clean and don't smell like mothballs. She may have fallen for your wit and charm and was convinced to spend the night at your place. But a smelly bed sheet will suddenly make her remember that she needs to go home early.
• Use scented oils or candles to set the mood in your room. Do not use electric air freshener. It has been proven by different studies that women are attracted to vanilla smell. So I would recommend that you use Body Shop Vanilla Home Fragrance for your room.
  
• Check your laundry detergent. Some brands have strong and distinctive smell that it clashes with smell of your cologne.
• Check your deodorant. Does it work? Is its scent too overpowering?
• Do not apply perfume to your genitals.
• Bathe regularly and soap generously.
  

Recommended readings:

Every man aspire pleasure, happiness, freedom, power, adventure. And to have all of that and more, you need to have enough dough. In other words, WEALTHY. Automatic Wealth by Michael Masterson is a good read in that it gives strategies to gain wealth, and not some impossible get-rich-quick scheme or a positive-attitude-let-the-universe-work kind of thing most books about being rich claims. Instead, the book gives proven approaches and habits that would make everyone aged 20-40 financially independent. For those who have just finished college or just starting their careers, Masterson also comes out with an edition of the book called Automatic Wealth for Grads... and Anyone Else Just Starting Out .

Gadget: Western Digital MyBook 500GB

For all you file junkies, Western Digital WDG1U5000 My Book Essential Edition 500 GB is an external USB hard disk that look as good as it perform. The elegant case resembles a book and takes up very little space on your desk. Plus, it stacks horizontally and allows two or more drives to nestle neatly together like encyclopedias on a shelf. I have two of them and they do look good on my desk. It is easy to install (just plug it in), fast and ultra-quiet. And with the 500 GB space, you can store all your videos, music, photos and even your left-over pizza... well, the last one was a joke.

Babefinder: Leighton Meester

Everyone who watched the TV series Surface must have known Lake Bell who plays as oceanographer Laura Daughtery. She is quite a hot babe herself, but there is another hot babe in that TV series: Leighton Meester who plays as Savannah Bennett in that series. She maybe only 17 or 18 years old when that show was filmed, but she was really hot in quite a number of scenes where she was wearing skimpy bikinis. The cute and sexy young actress also appeared in various TV shows, one of which was a recurring role in season 3 of House in which she played a 17-year old teenager who is craving to have sex with the old and grumpy Dr. House.

To see more of Leighton, grab Surface - The Complete Series DVD

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